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== Colors ==

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There in an interesting implication here that gay men have extremely fine perception of colours in the blue-green range, even under disco lighting.

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Maybe they carry Pantone color chip sets along with the condoms and poppers.

== ColorsRewrite! ==

Any article that makes a number of factual claims and only after several paragraphs inserts a sentence to the effect of "This is not a universal thing and is different depending who you talk to and where you are" needs to be totally rewritten. If nothing else the point that "this is not a universal thing" needs to go at the very front of the article.

== Kleenex ==

Beyond that this article sounds a lot like someone is describing an urban legend as if it were fact.

It was my understanding that a kleenex in the right hand pocket is masturbation in front of a sexual partner and that a kleenex in both pockets signified an interest in mutual masturbation.

Imma look into this and if no one else wants to take on the rewrite I'll do that. (I'll probably delete 80% of the material.) [[User:Hmoulding|Hmoulding]] ([[User talk:Hmoulding|talk]]) 14:57, 1 May 2017 (UTC)

--[[Special:Contributions/86.16.194.235|86.16.194.235]] ([[User talk:86.16.194.235|talk]]) 19:50, 24 July 2011 (UTC)

:The last two paragraphs of the lede do seem to indicate uncited/original research, but the Origin and Examples sections are better and have at least of a couple of reliable sources. I'll take a look later, when I'm not supposed to be working. [[User:HalJor|HalJor]] ([[User talk:HalJor|talk]]) 17:10, 1 May 2017 (UTC)

== Commentary ==

:I took a stab at it. I removed a fair amount of uncited/original research and rephrased a few sentences. What remains is pretty general and (despite any additional citations) is reasonably true based on the citations that remain. I can't find my copy of the reference for the "Origin" section, or I'd confirm that the entire section comes from that reference. The "Examples" section is based on the citation mentioned there -- I rewrote that section a while back, more or less in its current form, so it should stand (the final sentence speaks to the current state of the code, where there is no consensus among the additional colors and the regionality of any deviations). The only part that could use additional work is second paragraph of the lede. Some of that is probably in the other works cited here -- I just don't have them handy. [[User:HalJor|HalJor]] ([[User talk:HalJor|talk]]) 00:56, 2 May 2017 (UTC)

There are a number of references in the table of hanky codes that seem to just be general commentary. For now, I've simply grouped them out for easier reading, but I would support paring them down to those that really deal more with the hankies themselves, rather than things like "double-fisting is possible...", which really has ''nothing'' whatsoever to do with the hanky code. Does anyone else have any opinions on what can stay and what can go?

==THE BIG LIST==

Also, where do all these colours come from? If these are being cited solely from blogs and similar sources, it probably constitutes unnotable material or at best something that should be linked to as "Further Reading". I know the list has evolved over the years, but some of these seem really...well...to be polite, let's say "unlikely" colours to be seen in practical use. <span style="white-space:nowrap">– [[User:RobinHood70|RobinHood70]] <sup style="line-height:0">[[User talk:RobinHood70|talk]]</sup></span> 06:34, 12 September 2011 (UTC)

Has anyone else seen this? I'm not sure why the expanded version of the list isn't allowed in this article. https://unicornbooty.com/the-new-hanky-code-film-art-comedy/ --[[User:RThompson82|RThompson82]] ([[User talk:RThompson82|talk]]) 00:15, 9 May 2017 (UTC)

:Because it doesn't satisfy [[WP:RS]], perhaps? That's a blog supporting a social networking app, and we've gone over this several times already. [[User:HalJor|HalJor]] ([[User talk:HalJor|talk]]) 02:52, 9 May 2017 (UTC)

== StrictlyMuch earlier origin? gay ==

I've read about handkerchiefs being flashed as part of a signal for gay men cruising as far back as 1702 - http://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/twicken.htm

The term "strictly gay code" in the 1970s is misleading, pointless, wrong, and contradictory especially since later in the sentence it says that it's used by bisexuals and gay people. Bisexuals also used the hanky code in the 70s as well I was around then and I remember bisexual men using the hanky code. <span style="font-size: smaller;" class="autosigned">— Preceding [[Wikipedia:Signatures|unsigned]] comment added by [[Special:Contributions/71.185.47.133|71.185.47.133]] ([[User talk:71.185.47.133|talk]]) 08:17, 11 October 2011 (UTC)</span><!-- Template:Unsigned IP --> <!--Autosigned by SineBot-->

--[[Special:Contributions/86.160.19428.23558|86.160.19428.23558]] ([[User talk:86.160.19428.23558|talk]]) 1913:5047, 247 JulyNovember 20112017 (UTC)

:You're absolutely right. Anybody can change Wikipedia, so next time, feel free to change the sentence structure as you see fit. I'll go have a look at it now and see what I can come up with. <span style="white-space:nowrap">– [[User:RobinHood70|RobinHood70]] <sup style="line-height:0">[[User talk:RobinHood70|talk]]</sup></span> 16:19, 11 October 2011 (UTC)

== Proposal to trim unsourced and apparent jokes ==

Many of the codes in this article look like jokes made up for this page. I propose that all codes without reliable sources are trimmed from the list until someone can provide a credible reference. --[[User:Fæ|Fæ]] ([[User talk:Fæ|talk]]) 22:50, 24 February 2012 (UTC)

:Looking over the extended table, by and large it's the last bunch that I find questionable. Most of the first 3/4 of the table constitute reasonably common practices in the gay BDSM community, so it's not difficult to imagine that they might have developed hankies to go with them. Nevertheless, as is stated in the text itself, the entries in the second table seem to be an amalgamation of web sources, are most likely not commonly used/known colours, and are not reliably sourced at all. Rather than trimming selectively, which no one can really authoritatively decide on, I'd suggest we remove the entire second table and any related text for the time being. I'm sure there's something more recent than ''The Leatherman's Handbook II'' to use as a source, which may list a few more colours/patterns that have come into common use. I'll ask around and see if someone can provide a recommendation for a modern reliable source. <span style="white-space:nowrap">– [[User:RobinHood70|RobinHood70]] <sup style="line-height:0">[[User talk:RobinHood70|talk]]</sup></span> 03:17, 25 February 2012 (UTC)

::Having now asked a large number of gay BDSMers, the general consensus is that anything more than the older ones are unreliable at best and generally unused or minimally used in real life, and for that reason, anything "authoritative" is probably out of the question. There are numerous websites devoted to the hundreds of wild ideas that everyone and their dog has had since the advent of the Internet, but besides the Leather Man's Handbook II, already mentioned on the article, only one book was mentioned: Leatherboy Handbook by Vincent Andrews, which apparently has a list of 41 hanky codes. All the other recommendations were websites, most or all of which were self-published or otherwise non-authoritative. As such, I would recommend that we remove the entire second table (which appears itself to have come from two different websites) and reduce it to a small blurb that says something to the effect of there being a wide variety of more expansive lists available on the web. <span style="white-space:nowrap">– [[User:RobinHood70|RobinHood70]] <sup style="line-height:0">[[User talk:RobinHood70|talk]]</sup></span> 03:52, 2 March 2012 (UTC)

:::''Support'' the suggestion. I see no harm in going ahead. If anyone has a beloved code to keep in, they should substantiate it with a new source. --[[User:Fæ|Fæ]] ([[User talk:Fæ|talk]]) 04:02, 2 March 2012 (UTC)

:::With nobody else having opposed the suggestion, and someone going so far as to Prod the discussion, as you noticed, I've gone ahead and removed the web-sourced table and made what I think are appropriate changes to the rest of the text. <span style="white-space:nowrap">– [[User:RobinHood70|RobinHood70]] <sup style="line-height:0">[[User talk:RobinHood70|talk]]</sup></span> 04:49, 7 March 2012 (UTC)