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Fairbairn's structural model contains three selves that relate to three aspects of the object. The selves do not know or relate to each other, and the process of dissociation and the development of these structures is called the '''splitting defense''', or '''splitting'''.
 
* The '''child's central ego''' relates to the '''Ideal object''' when the parent is supportive and nurturant.
* The '''libidinalantilibidinal ego''' relates only to the '''excitingrejecting object''', and these structures contain the overlychild's hopefulfear childand whoanger relatesas towell as the excitingparent's over-promisingindifference, parent.neglect or outright abuse.
 
* The '''antilibidinallibidinal ego''' relates only to the '''rejectingexciting object''', and these structures contain the child'soverly fearhopeful andchild angerwho asrelates well asto the parent'sexciting indifference,over-promising neglectparent. or outright abuse.
 
The '''libidinal ego''' relates only to the '''exciting object''', and these structures contain the overly hopeful child who relates to the exciting over-promising parent.
 
The Fairbairnian object relations therapist imagines that all interactions between the client and the therapist are occurring in the client's inner object relations world, in one of the three dyads. The Fairbairnian object relations therapist also uses their own emotional reactions as therapeutic cues. If the therapist is feeling irritated at the client, or bored, that might be interpreted as a re-enactment of the Antilibidinal Ego and the Bad Object, with the therapist cast in the role of Bad Object. If the therapist can patiently be an empathic therapist through the client's re-enactment, then the client has a new experience to incorporate into their inner object world, hopefully expanding their inner picture of their Good Object. Cure is seen as the client being able to receive from their inner Good Object often enough to have a more stable peaceful life.<ref name="Columbia University Press" />