Baseball metaphors for sex

In American slang, various baseball terms for sex are often used as euphemisms or metaphors for sex, especially to describe the degree of physical intimacy achieved.^[1] In the most common metaphor, first prevalent in the aftermath of World War II, sexual activities are described as if they are actions in a game of baseball.^[2][3] Baseball has also served as the context for other metaphors about sexual roles and identity.

Baseball diamond showing all the bases

Running the bases

Among the most commonly used metaphors is the progress of a batter and base-runner in describing levels of physical intimacy, traditionally from a heterosexual perspective. Definitions vary, but the following are typical usages of the terms.

• First base – mouth-to-mouth kissing, especially French kissing^[4]
• Second base – touching or petting above the waist, particularly touching the breasts or chest; in some contexts, it may instead refer to touching any erogenous zones through the clothes (i.e., not actually touching the skin)^[4]
• Third base – touching below the waist or manual stimulation of the genitals; in some contexts, it may instead refer to oral stimulation of the genitals;^[4]
• Home run (home base or scoring) – "full" (penetrative) sexual intercourse^[4]

The metaphors are found variously in popular American culture, with one well-known example in the Meat Loaf song "Paradise by the Dashboard Light", which describes a young couple "making out", with a voice-over commentary of a portion of a baseball game as a metaphor for the couple's activities.^[5] A similar example can be found in Billy Joel's song "Zanzibar" in which he compares himself to Pete Rose and sings the lines, "Me, I'm trying just to get to second base and I'd steal it if she only gave the sign. She's gonna give the go ahead, the inning isn't over yet for me."^[6] Trace Adkins's 2006 song "Swing" is based on the same concept, while the protagonist in Brad Paisley's 2007 song "Online" is described as having never been to second base with a woman.

The term strikeout may be used to refer to a failure to engage in any form of foreplay or other sexual activity.^{[citation needed]}

Other metaphors

Baseball positions are used as a coded reference to the roles played by men who have sex with men:^[7]

• Pitcher – the penetrative partner in anal sex
• Catcher – the receptive partner in anal sex

Similar metaphors for sexual identity include:

• Switch hitter – a bisexual individual, referencing a player who can bat from either side^[8]
• Playing for the other team also Batting for the other team – indicating a person is gay or lesbian^[9]
• Playing for both teams also Batting for both teams – indicating a person is bisexual^[10]

Views

The sequence of "running the bases" is often regarded as a sexual script, or pattern, for young people who are experimenting with sexual relationships. The script may have slightly changed since the 1960s. In their 1995 book, James Kohl and Robert T. Francoeur write that with the growing emphasis in the 1990s on safe sex to expand sex beyond heterosexual penetrative intercourse, the "home run" has taken on the additional dimension of oral sex.^[11] Researchers Juliet Richters and Christopher Rissel conversely state that "third base" is now sometimes considered to comprise oral sex as part of the accepted pattern of activities, as a precursor to "full" (i.e. penetrative) sex.^[12]

There are conflicting perspectives on the use of the baseball metaphor as a part of sex education. Some educators have found the baseball metaphor an effective instructional tool when providing sex education to middle school students.^[13] Opponents argue that the baseball metaphor reflects ideas about sex as a contest to be won, rather than a mutual and consensual activity.^[14] In her 1991 book The Power of Language: Baseball as a Sexual Metaphor in American Culture, Deborah Roffman writes that the baseball metaphor has been "insidiously powerful, singularly effective, and very efficient...as a vehicle for transmitting and transferring to successive generations of young people all that is wrong and unhealthy about American sexual attitudes."^[14] Critics suggest that other metaphors might be more useful for explaining sexual consent and pleasure;^[15] sexuality educator Al Vernacchio suggests "sharing a pizza" as an alternative metaphor that emphasizes mutual appetite and enjoyment over completion.^[16]

See also

• Glossary of English-language idioms derived from baseball

References

1. Hellermann, Steven L.; Markovits, Andrei S. (2001). Offside: Soccer and American Exceptionalism. Princeton University Press. p. 66. ISBN 069107447X.
2. Romaine, Suzanne (1999). Communicating Gender. Lawrence Erlbaum Associates. p. 210. ISBN 0-8058-2926-1.
3. Jezer, Marty (1982). The Dark Ages, Life in the United States, 1945–1960. South End Press. p. 248. ISBN 0-89608-127-3.
4. Levkoff, Logan (2012). "Sex Talk Among Teens". Third Base Ain't What it Used to Be: What Your Kids Are Learning About Sex Today—and How to Teach Them to Become Sexually Healthy Adults. Open Road Media. ISBN 9781453262924.
   Dalzell, Tom (2008). The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English. Routledge. ISBN 9781134194780.
   Rutter, Virginia & Schwartz, Pepper (2012). The Gender of Sexuality: Exploring Sexual Possibilities. Rowman & Littlefield. ISBN 9780742570030.
5. Pearlman, Jeff (2007-08-29). "Phil and Meat Loaf will always have "Paradise"". ESPN. Retrieved 2010-01-21.
6. Bielen, Ken (2011). The Words and Music of Billy Joel. Praeger. p. 50. ISBN 9780313380167.
7. Bering, Jesse. "Top scientists get to the bottom of gay male sex role preferences". Scientific American Blog Network. Retrieved 2019-11-17.
8. Chetwynd, Josh (2016). The Field Guide to Sports Metaphors: A Compendium of Competitive Words and Idioms. Ten Speed Press. ISBN 9781607748113.
9. "Playing for the Other Team: Pride in Our Sports". Lavender Magazine. 2014-06-12. Archived from the original on 2020-07-26. Retrieved 2019-11-17.
10. Fox, Rebecca. "Being Bisexual: Playing For Both Teams, or a New One?". CollegeTimes.com. Retrieved 2019-11-17.
11. Kohl, James V.; Francoeur, Robert T. (2002). The Scent of Eros: Mysteries of Odor in Human Sexuality. iUniverse. pp. 153–154. ISBN 059523383X.
12. Juliet Richters and Chris Rissel (2005). Doing it Down Under: The Sexual Lives of Australians. Allen & Unwin. p. 32. ISBN 1-74114-326-8.
13. Hall, Alvin L.; Altherr, Thomas L. (2002). "Eros at the Bat: American Baseball and Sexuality in Historical Context". The Cooperstown Symposium on Baseball and American Culture 1998. McFarland & Company. pp. 157–182. ISBN 0-7864-0954-1.
14. Roffman, Deborah (July–August 1991). "The power of language: Sexual baseball as a metaphor in American culture". SIECUS Report.
15. Vernacchio, Al (June 21, 2003). ""You're Out, Baseball!": A Healthier, More Equitable, Satisfying and Safer Model for Sexual Activity". American Journal of Sexuality Education. 8 (1–2): 80–96. doi:10.1080/15546128.2012.740965. ISSN 1554-6128. S2CID 218637782.
16. Dreyfus, Carly (May 3, 2014). "To Slide or to Slice? Finding a Positive Sexual Metaphor". Scarleteen. Retrieved August 3, 2019.

External links

• Dale, David (2004-02-10). "Strike me lucky, it just isn't cricket". The Sun-Herald.